
When this film journey began, never could I have imagined that 7 years later, I would be in the East Wing of the White House, waiting to present President Obama with the DVD of my film, A Lot Like You.
But there I was, sipping champagne with approximately 100 bisexual, transgendered, lesbian and gay activists from around the country, mingling with Vice President Joe Biden, Rahm Emanuel and other senior White House officials while casually stuffing extra cocktail napkins with the Presidential seal in my purse.
Then half an hour later, without much fanfare, I was face to face with the man himself.
In the note accompanying my gift to President Obama, I told him, “I wish I had read Dreams From My Father before embarking on my film journey, because your book would have uniquely prepared me for the family stories I was about to hear.” And it was true.
As a mixed-race, first-generation American filmmaker thinking about having kids, I felt compelled to understand the cultural roots of my Blackness. My father is a Chagga man, born and raised in Tanzania (East Africa) on a coffee farm on Mt Kilimanjaro. At 18, he received a scholarship to study in the US, where he met and married my mother, a fellow grad student from South Korea. My parents worked for 30 years as economists for the International Monetary Fund and World Bank before they retired and decided to move back to Tanzania…for good.
In 2004, I decided the best way for me to learn about Chagga culture would be to film my father’s efforts to fit back in to the family and culture he’d left behind 40 years earlier. So my partner and I quit our jobs, packed up our gear and bought one-way tickets to Tanzania. But during our 9 month shoot, I discovered more about both the beauty and the brutality of my Chagga roots, and the story of my film evolved into something quite different than I’d originally intended.
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